Many singles I work with feel guilty when it comes to dating multiple people at once. It is common for people to date multiple people at the same time. But, is this a good idea for you?
This is a question that often comes up for people looking for love. In this blog, we’ll explore the benefits of dating multiple people at once and let you decide whether or not it’s the right approach for you.
You get a better understanding of what you want:
When you see multiple people, you allow yourself to explore different types of people and personalities. I relate it to buying a car.
Would you buy the first car you test drive? Or would you test drive several cars to see what kind of features it has? Does it fit your lifestyle and how you live? Dating several people will help you better understand what you really want in a partner more clearly.
Fewer engagements for one result:
There is no need to put all the eggs in one basket. When you only date one person, that person becomes your everything. You can easily get emotionally drawn to something that wasn’t even that big because you have nothing to compare it to.
You invest all your time, effort and emotions in one person. If things go wrong, it can be devastating. But if you see a number of people, you will clearly notice how people relate to you and the emotional energy and investment they make in your life.
It can relieve stress and tension and give you a sense of security. One person who keeps showing up consistently, makes an effort, and sets himself apart from the rest is usually your best bet!
Clarity about your needs and requirements
Sometimes, when we only see one person, we can forget what we really need or require from a relationship to make us happy.
But when you date multiple people, you allow yourself to learn more about the demands of your relationship and what you like and don’t like in the way a partner treats you.
Maybe one date talks all the time and only asks you one question. They may be good on paper with their careers and accolades, but they show no interest in you.
However, date number two is good on paper but remember that you love tulips and surprise you on a date with them. This person is considerate and considerate of your love and needs.
For comparison, who would you choose? If you only have the first one option… you might settle for not knowing it.
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Better relationship skills
In my conscious dating program, singles practice their skills by dating multiple people. Meeting different people at once helps you develop better communication and relationship skills.
You learn to read body language and understand cues that help you be a better date.
Because you have many options, it helps you feel confident in setting your boundaries and teaching a person how to relate to you. As well as learning how to flirt and build intimacy with others.
Best of all, because you’re dating several people, it helps you keep an open mind. Learn to be patient and listen to other people’s opinions before jumping to a conclusion.
In conclusion, dating multiple people can greatly benefit your overall dating experience. This can help you learn more about yourself and your needs in a relationship, as well as increase your chances of finding the right partner.
Let’s say you’re single and looking for love and want help navigating dating multiple people. In that case, the Path to My Love program will help you gain the confidence to make yourself a priority while dating multiple people at the same time to find your person.