Many of my clients ask me, “What do women want?” It always puts a big smile on my face because they expect the answer to be complicated. The desire behind this busy question is to find a meaningful relationship and stop spinning the wheel with unsuccessful relationships. But what’s the secret? And how hard is it to actually crack the code and understand a woman’s heart? Keep reading! You may be surprised at the answer to this age-old question.
There are many modern dating myths that men fall victim to. Let’s review some of these myths and what you need to know about them:
myth: All women want a man with a lot of money.
There may be such women out there but this certainly does not apply to all women. While some may appreciate fancy gifts, there are many amazing women out there who would rather just spend quality time with you than spend money on them. We all have our own love language, and you should focus on women whose love language resonates with you and the values you seek. Ask yourself which women you are focusing on and who you are paying attention to.
myth: All women want only beautiful men.
We all have different tastes, and the truth is that not everyone will be attracted to you. This is a simple fact for everyone, men and women alike. The key is not to focus on what you do not have, but to improve on what you have and take good care of yourself. Many women devote hours to their appearance – they wear flattering clothes, edit their hair, put on make-up and perfume, etc. Sometimes men forget to take care of their appearance in this way. But believe me when I say that every woman appreciates a man who knows how to take care of himself, dresses sharply and smells pleasant. I’m just smiling at the thought of it!
myth: All women want to date only men of the same race, religion, etc.
This is really not true for many women. There are a variety of people in the world who are incredibly attractive, and you can find an ideal partner from all cultures, religions and walks of life. Again, we all have dating preferences, but not all of them are the same. Many women have an open heart, and who you are as a person is more important to them than where you were born or what religion you practice. The way you treat her and the relationship you share with her is what matters.
Dating myths are created when we fall for the wrong people, when we are hurt, or when we just do not trust ourselves. Do not let your brain delay you; Start changing these limiting beliefs so what is the answer to the question what do women really want?
They want you to be yourself.
It is very attractive when a man knows himself and is confident about his goals and values. Self-confidence will take you a long way, and many women will want to know you better if you radiate that confidence. Live your life and stay true to yourself, and attract many amazing women.
They want to feel your masculine energy.
Women want to feel cAre comfortable in their feminine energy, so it is important that you use your masculine energy to help connect with them. Controlling your energy takes time, but it is a lifelong investment, and it will appreciate every moment you spend with you and crave more.
They want to make an emotional connection with you.
A woman wants to share her feelings with you. She wants to be able to open her heart to her deepest and most vulnerable place. She wants to feel that you are connected to her, that you are listening, and being there for her when she needs you. It’s no secret that women process a lot of things on an emotional level, so it’s important for you to show up and be there for her. Women want to feel what they mean, they want to feel that they understand them, and they want to know that they can trust you on a deeper level than anyone else.
So what do women really want? They want you, and they want your best version. No secrets, surprises or tricks. The big answer has been revealed, and it is up to you to decide what actions you are willing to take and whether you want to put effort into personal growth.